MEETING AMERICA ONE HANDSHAKE AT A TIME
I was thinking about this the other day, while out on one of my many dog walks. Someone had asked me where the idea came from for the tagline “Meeting America One Handshake At A Time,” and I really can’t remember the origin, or the nexus, of that particular line. However, I know that the idea of touring the United States most definitely came from a desire to meet my fellow Americans, and to satisfy, for myself, that Americans, one on one, are every bit as friendly and helpful as they were when I was a young kid.
Forget about the Americans you see on social media. Forget about the Americans you see on the news channels. I want to meet Americans, not gussied up for the camera, not flashing their plumage for a ten-second soundbite, but the Americans I know to exist, the next-door neighbor Americans, the everyday Americans who never experience fifteen seconds of fame but, rather, live their lives one day at a time, one victory at a time, one hardship at a time.
I know they are out there, on the backroads of America, and I want to shake hands with them before I die. It’s as simple as that.
HOW DO I KNOW THEY ARE OUT THERE?
The answer to that question is simple: I meet them daily, on my walks, and have met them for about five years now, complete strangers, eager to smile, eager to say “hello,” eager to pet my dogs and wish me a good day.
I don’t know how many, truly, I have met on these daily walks, but the number is fairly large, and it is growing daily, right here in my neighborhood, and if it can happen in my neighborhood, then who is to say that neighborhood can’t expand by, say a couple thousand miles?
It’s not as ridiculous as it may sound. I believe the good outweighs the bad by a vast margin in this country, and around the world. I believe the great majority of our fellow citizens are ready to help a stranger, are ready to offer a hand of assistance, and are ready to smile and say hello.
And we want to meet them. It’s as simple as that.
WILL IT MAKE SOME SORT OF DIFFERENCE?
I can’t answer this question. I have no idea if our tiny efforts of friendship will change anything in this world, but I do know one thing with absolute certainty: it certainly can’t hurt! We are going to get out there on the road, starting in March, and we are going to smile our asses off. We are going to be kind. We are going to reach out our hands, in friendship, and hopefully our efforts will be contagious. Hopefully, we will inspire others to be just a bit kinder.
And, quite frankly, we are counting on your help. We will tell you where we are going to be, and we would love it if you helped spread our circle of influence by sharing our adventures with your friends and family. When we are heading for the Topeka area, come out and meet us if you live there. If we are heading for Western Massachusetts, come see us, and tell your friends to come see us. Let’s see just how many people we can touch during our travels. It will be a new game, like Where’s Waldo; instead, it will be Where’s Bev and Bill?
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Bill
You are never late to my site, my friend. I appreciate it each and every time you show up, no matter when that is. Best wishes on Medium, and blessings to you always. Thank you for being such a kind human being.
Hello, Mr. Bill. I hope you are well. Sorry for being late this time. I’ve been a little busy lately with setting up my Medium profile and publication. 🙂
I loved the confidence in your voice when you said, “It certainly can’t hurt!” Kindness can never hurt, Sir; it can only bring joy and smiles, and I wish you and Ms Bev the best of luck on this exciting journey.
May God bless you both with eternal happiness, success, and good health.
Blessings always!
It’s interesting you said that about Americans, Liz. I have heard that quite a few times from people visiting from other countries. I think we are inundated, no the news, with horrible things done by our fellow man, and we forget that, basically, the Americans you meet are very good, friendly people. They are especially good about helping people in need, like if you have a flat tire on the road and you need help, or a neighbor has health problems.
Thank you as always for being such a good online friend.
I look forward to reading about your adventures as you meet your fellow Americans. I know of Brits who still talk fondly of their experience taking a long road/camping trip down the west coast in the mid-60s. The friendliness of the Americans they met certainly made a big impression.
Thanks, John! I just wish I could drive the RV to Australia. 🙂
Thank you my friend. I’m amazed you remembered in advance. Yes, the 13th. It defies logic that I am about to turn 74. 🙂
Glad you’ve got lovely weather. Ours is not bad, on and off sunshine with a few clouds and occasional showers! We’re off down south for a few days break over Arthur’s birthday. Happy Birthday to you too (I know it’s just before or after Arthur’s)!
Ann
It certainly can’t hurt to get on the road and extend the hand of friendship to other everyday Americans. It sounds like a wonderful plan, and will only do the world of good for your own wellbeing.
Good luck, Bill
I have no doubt we will get there, Bill. If I had to guess, I would say around leaf-peeping time next year. 🙂 See you then!
Good afternoon, Ann! Of course, I agree with everything you wrote. I suspect that I will encounter kindness throughout my travels, and I will bask in it.
Unbelievably beautiful fall weather here, my friend. Talk about basking. We are basking in the 70s as October progresses. I am not complaining a bit, because once the winter rains begin, shutting them off is a problem. 🙂
Best wishes to you, my friend, and as always my thanks.
I’m convinced, like you, that the majority of people are kind and friendly.
Take any shared disaster, it brings out the best in people.
Take the death of our Queen, it unified our country, not by any means all monarchists, when a blanket of calm, sadness and mutual respect spread through the streets and brought together in queues strangers who will remain firm friends.
Take my local walks; when I smile and say hello I get a warm response nearly every time.
That must apply to most people in the world. Love and respect spread goodwill and create a butterfly effect.
I have no doubt you will be greeted with warmth and make a name for yourselves as you go – the local press might catch up with you the further you go.
I sense excitement in your plans and hopes. I think you will succeed beyond your wildest dreams!
TC, keep safe and well!
Ann
Really looking forward to you making it to Western Massachusetts. And very excited about all your upcoming adventures.